I Don’t Travel To Run Away From Love, I Travel To Find It All Over Again

Someone asked me the other day if I travel as far as I do to run as far as I can from love. It was an interesting question, one that I honestly haven’t gotten before, nor have I thought much about. At first, I had no idea how to answer this question, but now I do. So, Dear Anonymous, here is my answer… I’m no stranger to heartbreak. I’ve definitely experienced my fair share of…

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An Open Letter: Thank You For Not Choosing Me

I’m the type of gal who knows what it is I want in life; in love, personal growth, career wise. The type of gal who has a Midwest heart with a West Coast spirit; a carefree, vibrant soul with a good head on my shoulders, and ambitions that I chase with all my heart.  But never in my life did I think I would find myself in this situation — falling for the nice fuckboy,…

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Because Maybe For The First Time In My Life, I Know I Am

For the first time in years, you helped me finally break down my walls. You allowed me to open up my heart to someone; to feel something again. You made me feel safe and comforted. You challenged me, pushed me to open up and be vulnerable; to express my thoughts and emotions unapologetically. You made me laugh in a way that I haven’t laughed before. You made me feel special, like I genuinely meant something…

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20 Tips To Spare The Heartache In Your Twenty-Somethings

I am not the person people usually turn to for dating advice, because quite frankly I don’t have years of dating experience under my belt. But, I am the person people turn to as a voice of reason; I am the person people turn to because I have years of navigating the in’s and out’s of self-reflection, awareness, and love — at least, enough to know my heart well and be aware of my strengths,…

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And The Funny Thing Is, It’s Okay

I’m finding myself at a loss for words, and the funny thing is, it’s okay. I have very quickly learned over a relatively short amount of time that no matter how well put-together our lives may seem on paper, there are just some things that are completely out of our control, no matter how hard we try to convince ourselves otherwise. No matter how hard we try to do our absolute best to make sure…

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